Do you have a first date coming up? Are you trying to impress your date, but not sure what to say? There are plenty of things to talk about on a first date, but here are eight things not to say on a first date (if you ever want to have a second date). Is it love at first sight? Do you see yourself spending the rest of your life with this person and raising your kids together? Great! Don’t tell them that. Serious intentions after a first date are a huge red flag and unless you’re in Vegas, you’re more likely to scare your date away then get that “yes” to a marriage proposal from them.